Men need to understand that a woman's reaction is only the cause of a mans action. Knowing how to treat a woman good includes the skill of reassurance since its the only thing that will cut assumptions. Some know how, some don't and some just can't be bothered to try. personally i don't put myself in the predicament of the walls coming down but sometimes things just happens. I'm not perfect. Anyway allot of women knows when there walls are down but if they believe in it they allow them to continue to come down. and trust that both sides will come as one. Although some Men are afraid of allowing there wall to fall down at times now I'm not say that they don't need any reassurance either ladies because we do do stupid things at time but men understand that most of the times our reactions are base on your action.