Tuesday, June 28, 2011

There is a reason why...........

There is a reason why……

A Lady is defined by so many glorious, respectful and wonderful attributes.  A Lady is defined as:


1. A woman who is refined, polite, and well-spoken: She may be poor and have little education, but she's a real lady.
2. A well-mannered and considerate woman with high standards of proper behavior.
3.  A woman regarded as proper and virtuous.
4. A well-behaved young girl.

5. A woman who is the head of a household.
6. A woman, especially when spoken of or to in a polite way.




I have highlighted these precious attributes, because these definitions sum up the core of me as a woman. as you can see money or education does not validate me as real woman  However, being polite, well-spoken, well-mannered, considerate, high standards, proper behavior, being virtuous, well-behaved, and being head of a household.  These are some of the valuable gems that i bring to the table that has help defined me as “A Woman”!  Let  me be mindful of these strong qualities and characteristics when we are preparing our minds, spirits and bodies Let’s carry ourselves as “Ladies” at all times we are all accountable and responsible for protecting our Lady status!  If your shorts are too short; let’s wear tights under them, if your t-shirt is too revealing; let’s wear something under it to protect visibility, if you have on a scarf or bonnet on your head; let’s comb our hair and let our beauty show; for a woman’s hair is her glory! If you want to say something that is not Ladylike; take a deep breath, walk away; collect yourself then speak. Let your Lady status show

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Did you forget

You say you love me but we don't make love
You say nothings changed yet I pull and you shove
I'm always pleasing you (did you forget)
That I got needs too but I'm so afraid to walk away from you I don't know what you want me to do

Though I love you and I care about you
But you keep hurting me and I keep forgiving you
I Don't wanna lose you
 I Need you in my life But your not giving back,
Why should i be the one to sacrifice

Now I take your cursing
Your lies and even flirting
Smile for the camera when I'm really hurting
Everyday you make me feel it for certain No matter what I do it just ain't working

Say you used to be my sunshine in the midst of the rain and you used to ease my mind when my heart was in Pain
I was the hand and you were my glove
Tell me what did you do with the man that I loved
You used to make me feel that I can fly
Now all I wanna do is lay down and die

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

DUI

What should you say and do if you are confronted by a police officer and suspected of DUI?
No single answer will suffice for all people in all situations. However, in dealing with the police, here are five universally sound things to do, if stopped for DUI:

(1.) If asked (or told) about an alleged traffic violation, do not try to appease the officer by agreeing with him or her that you committed some traffic offense. Don’t get belligerent, but say “Actually, sir (or ma’am), I believe I stayed entirely within my lane” or some other appropriate explanation. Remember, everything you are saying is being recorded, and your DUI attorney may be able to use the favorable things said by you in your favor.


(2.) If asked about alcohol use or drugs, ADMIT NOTHING, or blame it on your bottle of mouthwash. “I just brushed my teeth!” Don’t incriminate yourself by admitting that you consumed “only two glasses of wine with dinner.”


(3.) If asked for your license or any documents, have them ready to show the officer. Stay inside the vehicle, seated, with your hands visible on the steering wheel. If the officer asks you to step out of the vehicle, explain that you prefer to not get out, due to safety concerns. If the officer claims to smell or detect alcohol or drugs, do not admit to having consumed anything, just ask, “Am I under arrest?” The officer will say something like: “I need to give you some field evaluations to make sure you are safe to be on your way home.” This sounds good until he or she “claims” that you failed or did poorly on the field evaluations. Politely say, “Thank you, officer, but unless I have my attorney present, I’d prefer NOT to try to perform agility exercises that I am not familiar with.” Only when he or she ORDERS you to get out, and physically opens your door should you reluctantly leave your car. (remember you are being recorded and probably videoed).


(4.) Once out of the car, do nothing and walk no place other than where he or she insists, or forces you to go. Explain your desire to not get out of the car at the roadside, and your desire to not be asked to walk, balance, count or perform any voluntary roadside evaluations of any type. If offered a hand-held breath analyzer, decline doing it, if you can. If asked, “Why not blow if you haven’t been drinking?” merely tell the officer that you have no confidence in battery- powered devices that could carry bacteria, germs and diseases such as tuberculosis.
(5.) Ask to call your attorney on your cell phone as soon as the officer starts getting “pushy”. Also, state to the officer that you are willing to satisfy his concerns for safety by handing him your keys and taking a cab home, but that you will not submit to testing that you do not trust to be reliable or accurate. If he says,“So you don’t think you are safe to drive?” or something similar, be sure to say, “Absolutely not true. I am merely trying to satisfy you that I am cooperative in every way, even if I believe your concerns are not reasonable.”


Remember to always be polite. If taking the cab results in your car being towed, that is a small price to pay to avoid being arrested and possibly convicted of DUI. Hire an Experienced Florida Drunk Driving Attorney. For many DUI suspects, the initial confrontation with the officer will lead to an arrest. Be aware that EVERY CASE is different and do your best to follow the above guidelines.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Daughters2Mothers, INC

THIS IS A PROGRAM THATS JUST MAY BE THE NEW UPCOMING FOR ALL YOUTH THAT MAY HAVE MADE MISTAKE AND THINK EVERYONE HAS TURN ON THEM........


Daughters2Mothers, Inc. takes a co-parenting approach to accomplish its mission and goals by providing free mentor ship to low income teen-age parents between the ages of 13-21. It's program is a holistic, continuous, 2 pronged program designed to provide teen-age parents the opportunities to enhance the quality of their lives.

Daughters2Mothers
PO Box 681192
Miami, Fl 33168 phone: (305) 7414755

This program is not just about youth and teenage pregnancy it go pass that its more of a guide to young beautiful teenager of becoming successful woman you see allot of people believe that success is money and power to be very honesty its not its more of being content and comfortable with thyself the key word is SELF once you have discover the true meaning of self within then there is no limit to how far you can go and no one can take that away from you



ugh!

Nothing pisses me off more than a woman who cuts herself short just to please a man.
NEWS FLASH!!!!!!!:
If he can't accept ALL of YOU, He's not worth it, because at the end of the day we are ALL damaged goods with some kind of baggage.
its just sad too see someone have that much advantage over a woman and think nothing of it the funny thing is that woman hold the key they just have to really know how to turn the lock those woman want somebody to feel guilty for what they have going on but in reality its all about your deep down insecurity
but when that MAN say jump!!!! your alter EGO! run to the next exit
UGH!!!! (ugly face)
You let that fraction of a man run you cause your scared to start over !!!!

SUCK IT UP!!! AND DEAL WITH IT AND TAKE BACK CONTROL


Tuesday, March 8, 2011

BASKETBALL WIVES


FINALLY!
Well, Royce was not one of my favorites but I think the girl is alright. At LEAST she ADMITS when she is wrong and thinks for herself.
Now Evelyn....is a WHORE! I don't usually side with an out of control angry alchoholic but Tammi was right to bust that bytch in the face and I hope there is a reunion show and she finishes the job. For Evelyn to sit there and say she didn't know is a lie. That bytch will investigate the pockets of any man she sleeps with....hence why she'll even sleep with them That bytch is a calculating C*NT!
I RESPECT Shaunie for telling Tami immediately after finding out cuz that shyt was foul. I'm starting to think that the girl may have been eye grilling and snickering behind Tami's back the whole time in Spain.
May a thousand and one flea invest Evelyn's lingerie! She's the girl that eveyone is gonna be engaged to and at the end of the day after she's gurgled enuff nutz down her throat a muhphucker looks at her and says...NAH! She ain't wifey material!

Monday, March 7, 2011

INSANE ADVENTURE

While sitting at home eating I saw the for Shaun T's Insanity. It looked like a really hard but awesome workout, so I decided to order it and see how I would do. I noticed that mosst of the people in the informercial were basically already semi-fit, so I want to see how the program works for someone thats completly opposite.I just clocked in my weight at 190lbs this morning and at 5'2 1/2 WOW!!! that's really high for me. I'm looking to lose about 30-40lbs. So I'm going to see what this program can d0.
Basically the program consists of about 10-13 dvds (depending on what you order) and a nutrition plan. The program is supposed to be for 60 days. That's do-able I think. Each dvd has a different workout for a different day 6x per week. The first month the videos are about 39 minutes or so. Month 2 they go up to about an hour or so. Each workout is supposed to be super intense and I heard that most people (even those that are thin and fit) can't even get through it. So we'll see how I do.
The hardest part for me in sticking out the 60 day plan will be the nutrition. The program comes with a nutrition manual that says you're supposed to eat 5 300 calorie meals per day (you can increase it based on your caloric needs). I LOVE pasta food! So that's hard to give up. Plus my weight doesn't respond well to changes in my life. Everytime something changes my weight always fluctuates. But hopefully have a stricter diet plan will stop that from happening next semester when school begins again.
I'm going to try to post a couple of times per week for updates. so today is day 1 of my 60 day INSANE adventure.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Omg! its my third day in this i feel like s%#t mentally but hey thats part of the change well 2 days in it 19 days left not so bad i guess anywho this weekend will be a busy weekend for me hair day with mom two dinner party long hours at work time with the kids and whole unexpected other things that just might come up
OTHER NEWS
NICKI COVERS MARCH BLACKBOOK !!!!!!



Her photos are awesome i just still wonder what will she do when she get older everyone have there time of fame i guess there are no limits to how you get there just get there

BY THE WAY I STILL SAY "LIL KIM" CREATED YOU CHECK THE FOOTAGE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1u4k7alH2Q&feature=player_detailpage



























Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Change the Dynamics

For whatever reason im feeling inclined to share my thoughts....... it makes me want to cut myself when people making permanet decisions based on temporary conditions .....but when do we change the dynamics of the game!!!!

How well do you play in the situations when you have advantage vs when position is balanced vs when you are worse? One way to improve your game is by finding an answer to the question and working on addressing the situation were you perform the worst.

The Story: What side was happy with the end game John Doe felt that he had reach a winning postion; Jane doe felt that she was able to transpose a passive position into a tactical endgame were she could out-play her mate.
Interestingly both out played each other to a certain degree. Indeed after all the bitter John doe would have achieved a winning position. his controlness was soild and his support of man hood made it easy for him to control the game. But little did he know Jane doe was in the lead of the game the entire time. Do to the reality she actually hold the cards but Jane had to realize that playing her postion the right way ,was the only way. And thats: to sacrfice showing her love cause you should never make a permanent decisions from temporary situation and realize that John will always Love her (free spirt)

i wanted to use this example to show how the flow of the game can be change by a small material sacrifice. It not only has a effect on the position, but also psychologiacal effect on both people. However a proper assessment is required before you excute your sacrifice. Otherwise, a solid, but passive position could collapse.
Still, even if that was to happen, all is not lost. When the factors of emotion are aganist your, psychological factors could possibly rescue you just like John in the end








































Wednesday, January 5, 2011

OFFICE CRUSHES

There could be a woman or a man at your job that you find very attractive. You enjoy working with them, joking with them, and even flirting with them. It seems like they like you, but nothing has happened yet. You go out to clubs, tried online dating, and have been set up by your friends but nothing has gotten your attention like the man or woman from work has.
You wonder if they think about you after work or on weekends like you think of them. You wonder if they are dating anyone and if they wonder if you are dating anyone. You are curious and want to know if they are as excited to come to work and see you just like you are to see them. You go to work every day and think to yourself “Today just might be the day they ask me out”, but it hasn’t quite happened yet. You are starting to think it never will. You may be getting frustrated because they HAVENT asked you out and you wonder what the hell are they waiting for?
Are they just flirting with you but don’t plan on doing anything about it? Can’t they tell that you would say yes if they did ask you out? What more do you have to do to get them to take the next step because you have run out ideas?!
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm........

I find this too funny cause im in the office seeing this go down as i write and they seem as if they dont understnd why
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