Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Change the Dynamics

For whatever reason im feeling inclined to share my thoughts....... it makes me want to cut myself when people making permanet decisions based on temporary conditions .....but when do we change the dynamics of the game!!!!

How well do you play in the situations when you have advantage vs when position is balanced vs when you are worse? One way to improve your game is by finding an answer to the question and working on addressing the situation were you perform the worst.

The Story: What side was happy with the end game John Doe felt that he had reach a winning postion; Jane doe felt that she was able to transpose a passive position into a tactical endgame were she could out-play her mate.
Interestingly both out played each other to a certain degree. Indeed after all the bitter John doe would have achieved a winning position. his controlness was soild and his support of man hood made it easy for him to control the game. But little did he know Jane doe was in the lead of the game the entire time. Do to the reality she actually hold the cards but Jane had to realize that playing her postion the right way ,was the only way. And thats: to sacrfice showing her love cause you should never make a permanent decisions from temporary situation and realize that John will always Love her (free spirt)

i wanted to use this example to show how the flow of the game can be change by a small material sacrifice. It not only has a effect on the position, but also psychologiacal effect on both people. However a proper assessment is required before you excute your sacrifice. Otherwise, a solid, but passive position could collapse.
Still, even if that was to happen, all is not lost. When the factors of emotion are aganist your, psychological factors could possibly rescue you just like John in the end








































Wednesday, January 5, 2011

OFFICE CRUSHES

There could be a woman or a man at your job that you find very attractive. You enjoy working with them, joking with them, and even flirting with them. It seems like they like you, but nothing has happened yet. You go out to clubs, tried online dating, and have been set up by your friends but nothing has gotten your attention like the man or woman from work has.
You wonder if they think about you after work or on weekends like you think of them. You wonder if they are dating anyone and if they wonder if you are dating anyone. You are curious and want to know if they are as excited to come to work and see you just like you are to see them. You go to work every day and think to yourself “Today just might be the day they ask me out”, but it hasn’t quite happened yet. You are starting to think it never will. You may be getting frustrated because they HAVENT asked you out and you wonder what the hell are they waiting for?
Are they just flirting with you but don’t plan on doing anything about it? Can’t they tell that you would say yes if they did ask you out? What more do you have to do to get them to take the next step because you have run out ideas?!
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm........

I find this too funny cause im in the office seeing this go down as i write and they seem as if they dont understnd why
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